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Deity of the Week: Ares

Writer: Pae
Pae
Jul 31
9 min read

Ares is often reduced to “the god of war,” but that phrase barely scratches the bronze surface. In Greek myth, he is the roar before the charge, the panic in the dust, the courage that refuses to bend, and the violence that can ruin a city. He is feared, mocked, honored, and invoked for strength.


For mythology lovers, Ares offers some of the most dramatic scenes in Greek tradition. For modern practitioners, he can be a fierce ally in protection, discipline, boundary-setting, and survival work. To approach him well, it helps to understand both sides: the ancient stories and the living devotional possibilities.


Wide-angle view of a bronze figure of Ares standing among ancient Greek temple ruins.
Ares is best understood as both a mythic force and a divine presence of conflict, courage, and heat.

Ares in Greek mythology


Ares is the son of Zeus and Hera and one of the Twelve Olympians. Where Athena represents strategy, discipline, just defense, and skill in war, Ares embodies the raw experience of battle itself. He is the clash of weapons, blood heat, rage, fear, and physical bravery.


Ancient Greek sources do not always treat him kindly. In Homer’s Iliad, Zeus calls him hateful because of his love of strife. Ares is not shown as a calm commander. He is passionate, reactive, and easily swept into the chaos he governs.


That does not make him simple. Ares also represents truths many cultures prefer to soften. War is terrifying. Anger can be destructive. Courage is not clean or pretty. Survival sometimes requires force. Ares stands in those uncomfortable places.


His symbols and sacred associations


Ares is commonly linked with:


  • The spear and shield


These mark him as an armed warrior and a direct participant in battle.


  • The helmet and armor


His armor shows readiness, confrontation, and the willingness to endure impact.


  • The chariot


In poetry, Ares moves quickly and violently through the battlefield.


  • Dogs and vultures


These animals connect him to the aftermath of war and the harsh reality of death.


  • The color red


Modern devotion often uses red for blood, heat, courage, and vitality.


  • Iron


Though not exclusive to Ares, iron fits his martial nature and is often used in contemporary offerings and talismans.


Where We Have Seen Ares Shine


One of the most famous stories joins Ares with Aphrodite. In the Odyssey, the two are lovers, though Aphrodite is married to Hephaestus. Hephaestus traps them in an invisible net and invites the gods to witness their shame. The scene is comic, but it also reveals something important: Ares is linked not only to violence, but also to passion, impulse, and desire.


In the Iliad, Ares fights on the Trojan side. Athena works against him, and the mortal Diomedes wounds him with her help. Ares cries out and retreats to Olympus. The episode shows his intensity, but also his vulnerability. He is a god, yet he can be checked by strategy, skill, and divine opposition.


Another story tells how the giants Otus and Ephialtes trapped Ares in a bronze jar for over a year. Hermes eventually rescued him. This myth is strange and powerful. The god of war, who seems unstoppable, can be contained. For modern practitioners, that image can speak to controlled anger, bound conflict, and the need to release force with care.


Ares also appears in the myth of Cadmus. Cadmus kills a dragon sacred to Ares, then must serve him as atonement. From the dragon’s teeth spring armed warriors known as the Spartoi. Here Ares is tied to bloodlines, ancestral conflict, and the founding of Thebes.


In another tradition, Ares kills Halirrhothius, a son of Poseidon, after Halirrhothius assaults or attempts to assault Ares’ daughter Alcippe. Ares is tried by the gods on the Areopagus, a hill in Athens later associated with courts and judgment. This story shows Ares not as random violence, but as a force of defense and retribution.


Close-up view of a spear, shield, and red cloak resting on ancient stone steps.
The weapons of Ares point to conflict, but also to protection, discipline, and readiness.

The epithets of Ares and what they signify


Epithets are titles that describe a deity’s nature, local cult, powers, or mythic role. Some come from poetry. Others come from regional worship. Spellings vary because Greek names pass through different transliterations.


The epithets of Ares show a god who is more complex than “angry warrior.” He can be destructive, protective, terrifying, generous, and socially important.


Epithet

Meaning

What it signifies

Enyalios

Warlike or connected with battle frenzy

Sometimes treated as a separate war deity and sometimes identified with Ares. It points to the noise, movement, and spirit of combat.

Thourios

Rushing or furious

This title emphasizes speed, charge, and explosive force. It suits Ares as a god of momentum and battle heat.

Obrimos

Mighty or strong

Ares as raw power. This epithet works well for strength, endurance, and physical courage.

Deinos

Terrible or fearsome

This title names the dread that surrounds war. It does not soften Ares. It honors his frightening presence.

Andreiphontes

Slayer of men

A grim Homeric-style title that shows the deadly cost of combat. Use it with seriousness, not romanticism.

Brotoloigos

Bane of mortals

Ares as the ruin that war brings to human lives. This epithet reminds worshippers that war gods are not toys.

Miaiphonos

Blood-stained or bloody

A title of violence and blood guilt. It speaks to battle’s pollution, trauma, and consequence.

Chrysopelex

Golden-helmed

A more radiant martial image. It shows Ares in splendor, armed and divine rather than merely chaotic.

Chalkeos

Brazen or bronze-clad

Ares as armored force. Bronze was the material of ancient weapons and armor, so this title carries a clear battlefield tone.

Aphneios

Abundant or giver of plenty

A less expected title associated with prosperity in some local worship. It suggests that defense, land, and survival can connect war to thriving.

Gynaikothoinas

Feasted by women

A cult title linked with Tegea, where women were said to honor Ares after defending their city. It shows Ares as a recipient of civic gratitude.

Theritas

Beastly or savage, with uncertain meaning

Known from Spartan tradition. It suggests a fierce, untamed aspect of the god.

Laossos

He who rallies the people or troops

Ares as the force that gathers fighters together. This title works well for courage in collective struggle.

Teikhesipletes

Stormer of walls

A siege title. It points to assault, pressure, and the breaking of defenses. In magic, it should be handled carefully and ethically.

Areius

Of Ares or warlike

A broad martial title that can describe places, powers, or qualities connected with him.


These names are useful because they help refine approach. Calling on Ares Obrimos feels different from calling on Ares Brotoloigos. One may be fitting for strength training or resilience. The other may belong in solemn work about the cost of violence.


For devotional or magical use, choose an epithet that matches the purpose. A title should focus the prayer, not decorate it.


Eye-level view of a parchment page listing Greek epithets beside a bronze helmet.
Ares’ many names reveal the many powers gathered under his warlike presence.

Modern devotion to Ares


Modern devotion to Ares appears in Hellenic polytheism, eclectic paganism, devotional witchcraft, and private spiritual practice. Some people approach him through reconstructionist methods, using ancient texts, hymns, and historically informed offerings. Others work more intuitively, while still showing respect for his Greek context.


Ares is often honored by people seeking courage, protection, self-command, strength, or help facing conflict. Some devotees are drawn to him during hard seasons: recovery after trauma, legal or family conflict, military service, activism, grief, or the struggle to defend personal boundaries.


Modern devotion should not glorify harm. Ares may rule war, but reverence for him can include a sober rejection of needless violence.


Offerings for Ares


Common modern offerings include:


  • Clean water


Simple, respectful, and suitable for nearly any altar.


  • Red wine or dark juice


A symbolic offering of heat, blood, and vitality.


  • Bread, meat, or hearty food


These fit a martial, physical god. Keep food offerings fresh and dispose of them respectfully.


  • Frankincense, myrrh, or strong resin incense


These create a solemn ritual atmosphere.


  • Iron objects


A nail, ring, small blade charm, or piece of iron can represent martial force. Avoid unsafe handling of actual weapons.


  • Red candles


They suit courage, blood, energy, protection, and disciplined anger.


  • Acts of devotion


Physical training, martial arts practice, volunteering, protecting someone vulnerable, or doing difficult tasks with honor can all become offerings.


A simple devotional rite


This rite is suitable for a home altar or temporary sacred space.


  1. Clean the space.

  2. Place a red candle, a bowl of water, and an offering on the altar.

  3. Add a symbol of Ares, such as a spear image, helmet charm, iron ring, or red cloth.

  4. Light the candle.

  5. Speak a hymn, prayer, or personal address.

  6. Name the quality you seek, such as courage, restraint, focus, or protection.

  7. Sit quietly and listen.

  8. Thank Ares and close the rite.

  9. Dispose of offerings with respect.


A short prayer might be:


Ares, strong-hearted son of Zeus and Hera, stand with me where fear rises. Teach me courage without cruelty, strength without waste, and fire guided by honor.

Tuesday is often used for Ares in modern practice because of its association with Mars in planetary magic and Romance-language day names. That is a later layer rather than a strictly ancient Greek rule, but many practitioners find it useful.


Working with Ares in contemporary witchcraft


Ares can be a powerful presence in witchcraft, especially when the work involves protection, courage, conflict, anger, and survival. He is not usually a soft entry point. His energy can feel hot, blunt, restless, and demanding.


Approach him with clear intent. If the goal is vague, the work can become emotionally messy. If the goal is honest, he can help cut through fear and hesitation.


Good reasons to call on Ares


Ares may be appropriate for spells and rituals involving:


  • Protection from hostility

  • Courage before a confrontation

  • Strength during recovery

  • Reclaiming personal power

  • Setting firm boundaries

  • Breaking fear patterns

  • Defending a home or loved one

  • Transforming anger into action

  • Resisting intimidation

  • Building discipline through physical practice


He is less suited to petty revenge, manipulation, or fueling rage for its own sake. In myth, unmanaged Ares often loses to Athena’s strategy. That lesson matters.


Practical witchcraft tips for working with Ares


Pair fire with grounding.

Use a red candle, but place a bowl of water or a stone beside it. This helps balance heat with containment.


Use iron carefully.

An iron nail can represent defense. Place it in a protection jar or near a threshold charm. Do not hide sharp objects where people or animals can be harmed.


Write anger before casting.

If a conflict spell is needed, write out the anger first. Then rewrite the true goal in one sentence. For example, “I want safety and distance,” or “I want courage to speak clearly.” Use the second sentence in the spell.


Call on the right epithet.

For stamina, use Ares Obrimos. For defense, use Ares Areius or Chrysopelex. For work involving the consequences of violence, approach titles like Brotoloigos or Miaiphonos with gravity.


Offer action, not only objects.

A workout, self-defense class, therapy appointment, difficult conversation, or completed responsibility can be stronger than incense alone.


Close the work firmly.

Thank Ares, snuff the candle, ground your body, and do something ordinary. Eat, wash your hands, or step outside. Fiery work needs a clean ending.


A protection charm with Ares


For a simple protection charm, gather:


  • A small red cloth pouch

  • One iron nail or iron ring

  • A pinch of rosemary

  • A pinch of black pepper

  • A small paper with your name or home symbol

  • Red thread


Light a red candle. Ask Ares to guard what must be guarded and strengthen what must stand. Place the items in the pouch. Tie it closed with red thread. Keep it near the door, in a bag, or on an altar.


This charm is for protection and courage. It is not for harming another person.


Overhead view of a red candle, iron ring, rosemary, and cloth pouch arranged for a protection charm.
Ares fits protective magic that values courage, restraint, and clear intent.

Ethics and care when working with a war god


Ares’ domain includes harm, fear, rage, and force. That means ethical clarity matters. Before devotional or magical work, ask what you are really seeking.


Do you want protection, or punishment? Do you want courage, or escalation? Do you want justice, or control?


Ares can teach strength, but strength without self-command becomes damage. Many modern practitioners balance Ares with deities or spirits linked to wisdom, healing, justice, or peace. Within the Greek pantheon, Athena, Themis, Apollo, Hermes, or Hestia may provide grounding, depending on the work.


A healthy relationship with Ares may include:


  • Learning when to fight

  • Learning when to stop

  • Protecting the vulnerable

  • Training the body with respect

  • Honoring veterans and survivors without romanticizing war

  • Facing anger without letting it rule

  • Building courage that serves life


A steady path with Ares


Ares is not only the crash of battle. He is the hard breath before a boundary is spoken. He is the shield raised for someone who cannot raise one. He is the fire that says, “Stand.”


Myth gives us a violent, passionate, often uncomfortable god. Devotion and witchcraft can meet him with care, discipline, and honesty. Start small. Learn his stories. Choose his epithets with purpose. Offer what you can sustain. Most of all, remember that true martial power is not constant aggression. It is courage under command.


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